For as long as I can remember, I have been the second option. You know the other friend when you’re BFF can’t do something with you and you don’t want to be alone??? I’m the queen of endless lunch dates that never happen, the I will get back to you, and I’m the last one picked at dodge ball. The supporting actor role goes to me because I’m the second option and never the first. This happened all through childhood all the up until now. Maybe this is where I went wrong.
“You would make a great first wife. The one who has their children, helps them grow, and gets them to a good paying job.”
-my manager when I was 20
The Starter Wife 